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2013 — Our 20 Minute Garden’s Year in Review

The first day of the year is a good time to pause and reflect on the highlights of 12 months that have gone by. We’ve made both large and small changes this past year and experienced successes and challenges in all different sizes.

We’re taking a moment to reflect on the best moments of 2013 through blog posts. The order is seasonal and chronological; we are gardeners after all!

New Year’s Eve Feast — The festive last meal of 2012

Makerspace as Library — Reflections from a talk by Mark Frauenfelder

It’s not the size of your garden that counts. — How much space does a garden require?

On messages and mail Paying attention and finding meaning to every day messages

An almost instant Garden — How to shop for a garden in 20 minutes

In defense of rhubarb — An under-appreciated and under-celebrated hardy perennial!

Making something Good Enough — Three foot joinery and pretty good box

The Big Move doubles the garden In which we change houses and perspectives

Gardening in the “Off Season” — Winter time work for gardeners

Life Lessons from Glitch the Game — In Memoriam of a special online game

We’re excited about what the new year will bring.

Happy New Year to one and all!

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Life Lessons from Glitch the Game

Janice & Jim in the 20 Minute Garden, Glitch-style

Janice & Jim in the 20 Minute Garden, Glitch-style

Just about a year ago, Glitch, that weird and wonderful online game, closed down for good. It’s a testament to both how good the game was — and a bit to how messed up I was at the time — but I quite literally wept when I heard the news.

I had only played it for a few months, but Glitch had worked its way into my daily routine. I had been on the waitlist for Glitch, and as soon as I entered the world, I sent an invitation to my partner, who joined me there. Sometimes my little bright pink-skinned avatar crossed paths with his little green one, and we roamed the world together. A little trip to Ur became a regular opportunity to play, to discover, and to create that was restful, fun, and highly amusing.

What do we expect from games? Amusement, sure, escape. But I had the sensation that Glitch was making me into a slightly better version of myself. Real-life useful traits like generosity, patience, and playfulness were rewarded in the game. Playing the game always felt like winning, which was a refreshing sensation; many games are designed around making the player feel rushed, either in trying to beat the clock or another player. In other games, we fail repeatedly in a completing task, dying but earning endless do-overs. Again, Glitch was different; dying was possible, but it took concerted effort and purposeful neglect to make your character experience death.

After the game closed, we searched around for a few months, looking for “the new Glitch”, but we didn’t find it. We grieved and moved on.

Recently the ultra-cool folks at TinySpeck, the company that created Glitch, released many of the digital assets of the game to the Public Domain. We were also a HUGE fans of the music, some of which is also available now. The distinct images and sounds that created that world are a trigger for a lot of memories, which prompted me to reflect on half a dozen life lessons I learned from playing Glitch.

Projects require money, but also imagination
In Glitch, a player had multiple streams of power. Some video games have two “costs”, like energy and experience, for players to purchase or do something. Glitch added a third stream– imagination. A player needed imagination to build a structure or perform a task; conversely, a glitchen (the correct noun for your on-screen player) gained imagination from resting, completing a project, or playing a game within the game, of which there were many.

The same is true in real life. You can have the time and money needed to remodel your kitchen or take that painting class, but without imagination, you can’t hope to do those projects. Imagination is a resource we both spend and earn, and we really need it.

Why the heck ISN’T there something like “All Spice?”
The odd and unexpected behaviors of creatures and substances in Glitch was great fun. For example, a player needed Allspice, which could be harvested from a spice tree to make recipes. With a spice grinder, said Allspice could be transformed into other spices, which were ingredients for other recipes, things like ginger, cinnamon, and pepper.

Now that you think about it, doesn’t that make sense?

Waiting for abilities is probably important
Waiting is generally an underrated practice. Waiting for stuff to come in the mail can be cool– full of hope and mystery and expectation. Some on-line sex therapist once said you should never have sex on the first date, if for no other reason than it cuts short all that exciting anticipation. We’ve been married and monogamous for over three decades, but there’s something true and remembered about that assertion. Waiting… can be kind of cool.

There was always something to do in Glitch, but we were always also waiting for what was to come, what skills or places were yet to be discovered. Leveling up in Glitch took time but it didn’t feel like a “grind” (we’re talking to you, WOW). While being able to do everything possible from the start seems like a good idea, learning what to do and how to do it are valuable too. Waiting can lead to unexpected rewards.

Cute doesn’t necessarily mean dumb
In many games, your avatar is the best looking human you’ll ever meet or be, for that matter. You are buff and tough and definitely not real. Glitch characters were cute. A player could personalize his or her character in a multitude of ways, changing obvious things like clothes, but also altering attributes like hair, eye shape, placement and color.

Glitch avatars were smart, wiley and coordinated. Glitchen could run and jump, climb trees and ladders, move with purpose and grace. Some of the most moving tributes I read at the close of the game were from people with mobility issues who had experienced joy and freedom in having their little character jump and play in ways they hadn’t in years, if ever. We were cute, but we were mighty.

Relaxation as play and meditation
Interesting enough, I’d recently began incorporating meditation into my life around the same time that I started playing Glitch, an imaginary world where meditation was also a powerful activity. It made complete sense to me that my Glitch character would also be renewed and ready to go following a meditation exercise. Like me, my character got better at meditation over time.

The game, or at least parts of it, were also meditative and relaxing for the human playing. The world was a welcoming, hospitable and safe place to be.

Beautiful things that are temporary are still valuable
Many years ago, I was with a group of people departing from an extended time together. As we said our goodbyes, I told one of the instructors that I was sorry I hadn’t had a chance to get to know her better. She replied, “I’m happy we met at all.”

This was the final lesson of Glitch, maybe the one most worth holding on to in the end. All things pass away, and all things do come to an end, but Glitch is also full of good memories. Those who were there had a chance to play together, to help each other, to laugh, to plan and build, to visit, and to share knowledge and experiences. Glitch was just a game, but it was magical and meaningful and darn fun. I miss it, but I’m happy to have been there and learned a few lessons that make this world a better place.

Glitch links:

http://www.glitchthegame.com/

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Glitch_(video_game)

http://web.archive.org/web/20130207214750/http://www.glitch.com/closing/

http://www.pcworld.com/article/2019337/this-is-how-you-shut-down-your-mmos-servers-for-good-glitchs-graceful-exit.html

http://www.thisquietur.com/

http://resources.grelca.com/memorial/

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The Best Homemade Eggnog Recipe

Some years ago, when planning the first Christmas where the hosts were of drinking age, Jim and I wanted to serve authentic homemade eggnog. In those days before the internet and before we owned 100 cookbooks, I turned to the best source for recipes: my mom’s kitchen. My mother had a cookbook she’d gotten from my aunt, the name of which I cannot exactly remember, but it was something like “Southern Recipes from the Ladies of [insert small town], North Carolina”; I’m not sure if it was an officially published cookbook or a fundraiser-type made by a local group of women. Unlike the fundraiser cookbooks by our local church women, this one clearly categorized eggnog as a cocktail which included a generous addition of alcohol.

We have made the Christmas Eggnog recipe for many years now, both with and without the bourbon and rum additions, and it is fantastic both ways. This is a rather magical recipe that makes a punchbowl full of ‘nog, that is about 4 quarts. You can certainly cut it in half or to a quarter, if you want less eggnog. I think that homemade eggnog is best when just made, but it’s also pretty darn good when the “leftovers” are properly refrigerated and consumed the next day.

It almost goes without saying that this eggnog is far superior to anything you can buy in a carton or bottle. Homemade Christmas eggnog is light and rich, sweet and delicious. It goes down very easy and will not disappoint you. I get tempted to buy eggnog when I see those green and red decorated cartons popping up in the dairy case, and I’m always bitterly disappointed when I do. Resist, I tell you, and make some real eggnog of your own.

Remember that consuming raw eggs is discouraged by Departments of Health. The safest path is to make your eggnog with pasteurized eggs that are available in most grocery stores. People with additional risk factors (children, pregnant women, the elderly, or those with compromised immune systems) should avoid raw or undercooked eggs altogether.

Christmas Eggnog

Ingredients:
12 eggs, separated
1 cup sugar
1 quart milk
2 cups bourbon
1 cup run
1 quart heavy cream

Method:
1. In a large bowl, beat egg yolks with sugar until very light.
2. Add the milk, bourbon, and rum.
3. In a separate bowl, beat the egg whites until slightly stiff. Fold in the cream.
4. Fold egg white and cream mixture into the egg yolk mixture.
5. Add more bourbon and rum to taste. (We usually skip this step!)
6. Gently pour into punchbowl or serving bowl and grate some fresh nutmeg on top.

Do be careful with leaving out dairy-based foods and beverages at room temperature. It is better to serve part and keep the rest refrigerated, so that you can replenish as needed.

There are eggnog recipes that call for cooking the eggs or at least the egg yolks that I may try at some point, but I do think using pasteurized eggs is the best choice. I’m hesitant to mess with a perfect recipe like homemade Christmas Eggnog!

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Our first experience with a Pawpaw

Paw Paw Fruit

When I was standing in the street trying to photograph the hawk on Second Street, a neighbor offered me her last pawpaw. Although I always hesitate to take the last of anything, she insisted with such enthusiasm that I couldn’t say no. I’d never had a pawpaw, and I soon discovered that Jim hadn’t either.

I learned from my neighbor Ann and from the internet that pawpaws are a fruit native tree to the midwest and in fact one of the few that are native. The pawpaw tree is an understory tree, growing about 15-20 feet tall. Interestingly enough, all the fruit ripens around the same time, and the fruit drops to the ground when ripe. My neighbor had one very ripe pawpaw left in her refrigerator for us.

Later, we stood in the kitchen and briefly debated the best way to eat it. Should we peel it like a mango? Or slice it in half?

As you can see from the picture above, we opted for cutting the fruit in half. We hadn’t googled it beforehand, so the large black fava bean-like seeds were a surprise to us. So was the flavor. I had heard that pawpaws were very good, but I wasn’t expecting something so delicious. The texture was creamier than a mango, not quite like a banana, a little more like a ripe pear perhaps. The taste was sweet and very fruity, but original; it was reminiscent of banana, mango, a little pineapple, sort of tropical, which is exciting to find in a midwest plant!

Also exciting is the fact that our neighbors have offered to give us a pawpaw seedling for us to plant in our backyard next summer. Pawpaws send out runners that need to be managed, so they will give one to us. In a few years’ time, we could be enjoying pawpaws of our own.

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A Hawk on Second Street

Hawk on Second Street

It’s not unusual to spot hawks hunting or perching in the trees along the highway outside of town, especially in the fall when the bare branches provide no camouflague. It was a little bit surprising to see this hawk in a neighbor’s tree on Second Street. Our residential neighborhood is three blocks from Main Street, with lots of parked cars and regular comings and goings. Hawks are not regular visitors here.

Did you see him? He’s right here.

Hawk on Second Street annotated

It’s not a great picture. I was trying to snap a few shots, getting closer with each click, but I was worried about scaring him away.

Then I saw the two baby squirrels attempting to hide the same tree. Talk about scared; they were positively shivering.

I had to head off to work, so I couldn’t stay to protect them. It appears they survived that encounter because I’ve seen them scampering about the yards in the time since.

But I’ve also seen the hawk again. He seems to think this neighborhood is a good one to hang around.

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